As a mom at 19, pregnant at 18, please please PLEASE, tell your parents. Tell the dad (if you are not sure who it is- that's alright too.) because he deserves an opportunity to be a parent if you so value more highly to keep the baby and lift him/her yourself.
Being pregnant- regardless of the decision- goes to be the toughest thing you have been through. Whether it's an abortion (which is stressful for the procedure in a very mental/physical/emotional manner), keeping the baby (which is stressful in an exceedingly mental/physical/emotional manner), or giving the baby up for adoption (which again, is stressful during a physical/mental/emotional manner)- you may NEED SUPPORT.
Support is that the one thing that helped me not go crazy. you may lose friends and gain fake ones. you may gain true friends similarly, and learn lots about yourself.
Ask yourself what you wish to try to do. this can be YOUR body and YOUR life you're changing, irrespective of the choice.
How I came to my decision:
-I was 18 and a senior in high school. I revealed on February 28, 2014, that i used to be pregnant with my boyfriend's (of 2.5 years) child. i could not stand the thought of abortion, and never would are able to follow through with an adoption, hence I chose to stay her. My child saved my life. i used to be in an abusive relationship and due to her, I left. If I hadn't had her- i'd have died or still be scared to seem anyone within the eye.
How my friend came to her decision to own an abortion:
-She was 17, and a junior in high school. She discovered in December she was 6w with a baby from a bloke she'd been dating since lyceum. She chose to own an abortion because her life plan didn't include a toddler at such a young age, and she or he didn't want to fret for that baby for the remainder of her life.
How my relief came to her decision to administer her son up for adoption:
-She was 15, a freshman in high school. She discovered in May that she was 8w together with her son. She had no boyfriend (broken up a month prior), her life plan is to become a doctor, and he or she couldn't bear the thought of an abortion. So she took the steps, and that i helped her (I was 17 at the time) find a decent family with the assistance of her parents. She incorporates a beautiful little boy who is being raised by a family who loves him to pieces and provides everything she would want him to possess and more. She visits with him monthly as a 'friend', and that they attempt to tell him she's his biological mother within the future after they all agree it is time for him to grasp.
Does this make the three people different? No. It makes us different within the sense of we were all at different places in life and made the selections that were BEST for us. Yes, some days my friends get envious of my daughter & I. Yes, some days i buy envious of the carefree less responsibilities they need. But no, none folks regret our decisions.
So make your decision for YOU. nobody else.
If you select to stay the baby:
-get a job
-try and acquire classes done over the summer to hurry up after you can graduate
-start rearranging your room to create room for the furniture a baby requires, unless you happen to possess a spare bedroom you'll use for his/her nursery.
-Find a support group if in any respect possible.
-DO NOT unify because you have got a baby. Please, just don't.
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